My boys have been fighting a bit lately, and it involves a hit and then a few swift scratches from my toddler, and I don't know what to do... he shouldn't be scratching, but it doesn't seem like he's understanding my logic of having him stop.
Her steps in summary:
Step in when you see your child readying to hit, but just get close. Block the hit, and accept the frustrated meltdown to let their feelings out. Just be there to support.
Have a time-in instead of time-out. Get him out of the situation by bringing them onto your lap and help him calm down.
Discuss better ways to express frustration once they've calmed down.
"It takes a while for children to be able to manage their emotions. But by talking with your child about ways he or she can do better, you’re giving them the vocabulary to help them express themselves and giving them real tools they will eventually be able to use. Remind them how much you believe in them."
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